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Fluffybull · F
How bad was it? What did you do?
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull My brother left today and I'm not very good at handling my emotions, so I had a meltdown. I don't mean to. The anxiety builds and becomes uncontrollable.
They yelled at me and now they are mad.
They yelled at me and now they are mad.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic They are in the wrong for yelling at you IMO. If it was an anxiety/panic attack you had no control over it and they should have handled it better. ❤️
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull When they yell at me, it makes it worse.
I'm not sure what handling it properly looks like, Fluffy.
I'm not sure what handling it properly looks like, Fluffy.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic Exactly. Shouting at someone who is upset and scared is stupid. Would you shout at a scared animal?
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull No! I would sit with him until he trusted me enough to pat or pick him up. 😊
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic Then I think that's what a parent should do, hold their child until they are calm then talk quietly about what they're feeling.
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull That's what Pieter does. He hugs me and then talks to me, and I don't have to ask for the hug.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic He's a good person. He could teach people who are much older than he is a lot of things about how to deal with people. 👏👏❤️
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull He is my favourite person in the world and you are right. 😊 I want to be like him when I'm 21.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic I think you're a lot like him now, kind and caring about other people 👍
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull HUGS. Thank you, Fluffy. That is a very kind thing to say. 😊