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Today I embaressed my parents in public and they are angry at me. What could I do to make them happy?

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Fluffybull · F
How bad was it? What did you do?
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull My brother left today and I'm not very good at handling my emotions, so I had a meltdown. I don't mean to. The anxiety builds and becomes uncontrollable.
They yelled at me and now they are mad.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic They are in the wrong for yelling at you IMO. If it was an anxiety/panic attack you had no control over it and they should have handled it better. ❤️
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull When they yell at me, it makes it worse.
I'm not sure what handling it properly looks like, Fluffy.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic Exactly. Shouting at someone who is upset and scared is stupid. Would you shout at a scared animal?
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull No! I would sit with him until he trusted me enough to pat or pick him up. 😊
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic Then I think that's what a parent should do, hold their child until they are calm then talk quietly about what they're feeling.
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull That's what Pieter does. He hugs me and then talks to me, and I don't have to ask for the hug.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic He's a good person. He could teach people who are much older than he is a lot of things about how to deal with people. 👏👏❤️
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull He is my favourite person in the world and you are right. 😊 I want to be like him when I'm 21.
Fluffybull · F
@Manfredthemanic I think you're a lot like him now, kind and caring about other people 👍
Manfredthemanic · 18-21, M
@Fluffybull HUGS. Thank you, Fluffy. That is a very kind thing to say. 😊