Do you people have the right to know who they really are??

who their real parents are? like if a child was adopted or raised by someone that wasn't their actual sire... what if you knew and they were never told? should you tell them or is that inappropriate? is ignorance bliss or should they know they have other family out there? or is this just a personal matter left to individuals with no right or wrong answer?

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Adstar · 56-60, M

Unless you are a blood relative or part of the immediate adopting family it would be unwise to inform a person that they where adopted.. You would end up doing much harm..

SStarfish ·

never mind that.. how would you feel if your mother had you and all your siblings artificially but told you your dad was the person she was married to.. @Adstar but she told everyone else that she had all her kids artificially because her husband couldn't have kids .. would you want to know that you had some other unknown father (and possibly other siblings and family) out there??

Adstar · 56-60, M

@SStarfish Yes knowing the truth is good.. But my response is giving advice to someone who is not of the adopting family or the natural family.. It is best not to interfere..

SStarfish ·

ok, thank you .. @Adstar