Do you people have the right to know who they really are??

who their real parents are? like if a child was adopted or raised by someone that wasn't their actual sire... what if you knew and they were never told? should you tell them or is that inappropriate? is ignorance bliss or should they know they have other family out there? or is this just a personal matter left to individuals with no right or wrong answer?

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bookerdana · M

I think they should be told but it may be painful..in other times though some parents were granted anonymity

YoMomma ·

there's someone i know who i think already suspects their parentage but their mom denied it to them but told everyone else otherwise.. and tho i dont know the unknown parent or if they are even alive (because they are older) i wondered if the now grown kid should know they have other family out there @bookerdana i also wonder about adopted kids sometimes and if its right or wrong to hide the true story of their origins from them.. on one had its sweet to treat them like your own child.. on another hand you are depriving them of the knowledge of an alt reality.. which may or may not be good.. so idk.. sorry im blabbing

bookerdana · M

@YoMomma I think they should know even if the mother doesn't want to know her child,at least she could try to contact siblings,cousins

YoMomma ·

no. they know their mother.. she just didnt tell them who their real father was.. idk if she even knew.. it just wasnt who she told them it was.. but she told us otherwise.. over and over but told them (her children) another story 😬 smh @bookerdana