I'm Sad and Tired...Long Rant
I have a vacation property of tiny houses that I have been trying to get off of the ground for 4 years.
We are almost there. Its is in an off the beaten path remote place so it has been a major learning curve and tons of work developing the land and installing amenities.
I work 2 or 3 jobs depending on how you want to classify all of the ways that I make money.
I am so tired of my husband. I try not to say so but I am.
We been married 8 years and during that time he has never had a job because he is an immigrant and he fumbled his paperwork several times over the years and he has no ID now.
Long story on that but I tried to get him a new passport this year so he could re order the other us id stuff. I sent 700 usd to his mom in his country for the new passport and his stupid banana republic country is making it impossible to reorder his passport from abroad. They want bribes, every week they want more documents that are crazier and crazier. Bottom line they are jealous that he dosen't live there anymore and they want him to go back to his country and get stuck there while they laugh.
So we agreed that his job can be the properties but he has been so unrealistic every step of the way.
He has no concept of my money spent.
He tries to " save money" by doing Youtube video fixes and diy using new alternatives for every single task. And my husband is super smart thats what kills me. He built our solar system from scratch and had 1 tiny house working totally off of solar power. But he dosen't know his limits. I want to hire help now so he stops talking to me for 2 days and shuts down. He has some anxiety and dosen't want anyone else on the property with him.
If I question he argues, shuts me down claims that I am playing games with him and turns his back on me and leaves the room. Every single time I ask him about various work on the project.
He wasted the first 2 years doing Adobe methods that weren't stable. Im so exhausted and I just don't get any recognition for my work.
It took me months to find a plumber in this remote area and finally Im working with him to build the water system my husband rejects most of his suggestions and gets angry at me for considering more what the plumber is saying.
We are almost there. Its is in an off the beaten path remote place so it has been a major learning curve and tons of work developing the land and installing amenities.
I work 2 or 3 jobs depending on how you want to classify all of the ways that I make money.
I am so tired of my husband. I try not to say so but I am.
We been married 8 years and during that time he has never had a job because he is an immigrant and he fumbled his paperwork several times over the years and he has no ID now.
Long story on that but I tried to get him a new passport this year so he could re order the other us id stuff. I sent 700 usd to his mom in his country for the new passport and his stupid banana republic country is making it impossible to reorder his passport from abroad. They want bribes, every week they want more documents that are crazier and crazier. Bottom line they are jealous that he dosen't live there anymore and they want him to go back to his country and get stuck there while they laugh.
So we agreed that his job can be the properties but he has been so unrealistic every step of the way.
He has no concept of my money spent.
He tries to " save money" by doing Youtube video fixes and diy using new alternatives for every single task. And my husband is super smart thats what kills me. He built our solar system from scratch and had 1 tiny house working totally off of solar power. But he dosen't know his limits. I want to hire help now so he stops talking to me for 2 days and shuts down. He has some anxiety and dosen't want anyone else on the property with him.
If I question he argues, shuts me down claims that I am playing games with him and turns his back on me and leaves the room. Every single time I ask him about various work on the project.
He wasted the first 2 years doing Adobe methods that weren't stable. Im so exhausted and I just don't get any recognition for my work.
It took me months to find a plumber in this remote area and finally Im working with him to build the water system my husband rejects most of his suggestions and gets angry at me for considering more what the plumber is saying.
