I Have Done Things I Am Not Proud of

I don't know why I end up hurting people by being a jerk. Lately, I have been hurting people by being too honest and also I fear if I lie, God will not forgive me.

Anyway, today I am depressed about this incident that happened today. My cousin is pregnant and I know that one should not give any bad news to a pregnant lady. Today I forwarded a whatsapp msg to her. The msg is basically about a new born baby who is facing health problems and hence more we circulate the msg, more money can be accumulated for the baby's treatment.

Generally, i don't do it but it was a baby and it seemed real to me and without thinking I started forwarding it to everyone in my whatsapp list and accidentally msgd her without thinking and now I am feeling depressed about it. Why do I keep doing things without thinking sometimes?

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Lifology · 36-40, M

Thank you guys for your honest feedback. Yes, it was not at all intentional. May be she is not even thinking about it, I may be over thinking but I don't like to make people sad or depressed because of my any silly mistakes even though it is not intentional.

Anyway, just to lighten up her mood and to make myself feel less guilty, I just now tagged her along with some of my friends (just to avoid making it look obvious) and relatives on a post about a cute funny baby video on Facebook. Hope that brings a smile on her face. (If incase my whatsapp msg made her felt sad). Thanks @Serenitree.

Serenitree · F

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newbie · 31-35, F

sry i just think she might feel u r patronizing or even mocking her if u first send a highly pregnant woman a story about a dying baby and next you send this funny pic of a singing cat and baby. she might seek to get a restraining order issued for you :-)

Serenitree · F

@newbie: he didn't send this to her. I sent this to him.

newbie · 31-35, F

why on earth would u do that?

Serenitree · F

A better question is,,why not?