My 68 year old Aunt.....

This is not a "wind up or AI-generated"----although I am a newbie---M57 & Irish...

For the past year, I have been letting my favourite Aunt know I think she is "hot, sexy, and I ponder about her"...I got slightly drunk one day (early Jan 2025)and decided to confess to her that I have been wanking about her since I was 14/15 years old. I wasn't "blunt", I didn't use "crude/dirty " words, but the subtext was there from the start.----I think she is fcukable.

I left it at that for a few months, then late summer 2025, I started sending her AI images of her always wearing nylons, stilettos, above the knee skirts---sometimes wearing lingerie and stockings...

She hasn't asked me to stop, block me or scold me...I only send her AI images or let her know I ponder about her on FB....On WhatsApp, we chat alomost everyday about normal family stuff, current events, etc....

Rabbit420 · 70-79, M

All women like to think they're beautiful and desirable. A lot of women think it's sexy and take it as a huge compliment knowing that a man, or men find them so attractive that the masturbate over fantasies about them. She probably loves the fact that you desire her so much that you can't help playing with yourself, but she may think it's taboo to take it to the next level and acknowledge and respond to, or act on your messages, compliments and innuendoes. It's fine, in a kinky sort of way that her nephew finds her hot, sexy and wants to fuck her, but doing it with a close relative may just be too weird for her.

At this stage, I think you should just be blunt and honest with her. Find out exactly how she feels about the way you feel. You may get lucky and she'll take it to the next level.

Openminded68 · 56-60, M

@Rabbit420

She replied saying "she is shocked and we are family"----

I then took your advice and "put it to my aunt".../tights) and stilettos. I also told her that it isn't because she is my aunt but I have always had a thing for older women, and she is my favourite blonde ---I told her I think she is hot and sexy.

I know she saw the message and didn't reply...But she has forwarded a post I shared after she saw it and commented. We are chatting normally on WhatsApp.

I am going to leave it as is for the moment. What I do know is every time we chat----she knows I wank about her----one day soon I will take her up on one of her many offers to stay at hers for a long weekend (I know her partner will be away for one night)...And I will be alone with my aunt....Even if nothing happens or is spoken----When we are next alone (probably in her garage smoking), we will look into each other's eyes and "my aunt knows my truth"...

Openminded68 · 56-60, M

Last weekend's FB message mentioned that I have always found her "Kissable" and that she was wearing tan/barely black nylons and heels behind closed doors.

I am sure she has seen the message/FB notification, and she has a good idea it will be a dirty message.....I am sure she will read it ---she again knows her nephew (me) has a tabbo hard on for her and I wank about her...

Several weeks ago, I asked her, "If her outfit matched her heels, what colour of nylons would she wear?"---I got a one-word reply "Tan".

She sometimes invites me over to stay at hers for a long weekend....Knowing I poder/wank about her.