I Am Stronger Because of All I've Been Through

I just recently moved to the state next to my wife and kids. We are getting divorced, because I do not make her happy anymore. We both agreed it was the right choice. Because I cant keep hurting the woman I love this much. I had to leave behind my two little boys. but I do get to call them and see them everyday. My goal now is to get a good job. save for a car and save so i can move back closer to my boys. It hurts like hell but Ive got to improve myself and be a better person. a better me

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greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

Best of luck to you in your quest. May you find love eventually with someone you can make happy. Your plan to stay close to your children is a good one. When my parents got divorced, under pressure from my mother, my father moved 3000 miles away from me. It caused me a lot of distress. Children do need their dads around. I was bullied in school by a girl who knew how to fight. Her older brothers taught her. But I had no man or brother to teach me to fight so I got beat up every morning for 3 years. Also, a girl learns she is worthy and attractive as a female partly from having a dad around to reflect that to her. Boys learn how to be men from their fathers.

ChrissyB · 46-50, F

Wishing you all the best. It’s a pity since there’s love still and clearly friendship. Marriage isn’t easy and you’re still young. You have lots of time to grow as does your wife. Consider that divorce isn’t always the best solution to marital problems. Moving next door and not sharing the same house may also work and so, it may not be necessary for a full out divorce..

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