My husband is my husband not yours [I Have Nightmares]

My auntie Jessie is always borrowing money off of my husband a hundred here a hundred there and he doesn't even consult me with what he does with his money! I also believe that they both cheated on me last year it's a long story but I have finally forgiven them! But I don't trust them yet! She treats me like a bag of shit and treats my husband like a husband! They get along better than we do my husband and I! I don't know maybe I'm just insecure and jealous!