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How many ways do we make each other lonely here?

can u count 'em?
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HumanEarth · 56-60, F
I am not lonely. I am happily married, have lots of friends in person and on SW, and I'm always making more friends.

If you give me a chance, we can be friends too. All it takes is talking, and everyone on here knows how good I am at talking. Sometimes I'm full of shit, but still I'm entertainment and can be fun to talk to.
PleasurePunch · 100+
@HumanEarth Ok. So SW is not a loneliness machine?

Or maybe its my own private hell I see all over this place, and a few intact ones also love one another too...?? And never know that other world of isolation despair and endless need...

but we get it all here. I'm in that hellhole myself. And I know there are some sneering at me cause its easy to do it. And it MUST be my "fault"...
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Ahhhh, Let it go, I wasn't always The Mr. Popular Weird Man that everyone wanted to talk to. We all go through stages of life.

One day I will be forgotten about again
PleasurePunch · 100+
@HumanEarth nobody is answering my question, it must be a very hard one. But being trashed into a deeper loneliness is intolerable when we came here to alleviate it a little bit.

Too many ways it happens here like that. Its like a false power-play to push people away. Bringing them close involves something like the opposite of "power"...

and we get afraid of that. People with hard lives do it and its fearsome to experience it.

Get it??

Another guy thought prison was for punishment, ie: ABUSE, and he just couldn't understand me when I tried to correct him.

That made me lonely AND very afraid.

Get that stuff SWeeps??????
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Oh, don't let that bother you. I asked close to 1000 questions. Do you think every one of those questions got answers? Hell no!
PleasurePunch · 100+
@HumanEarth I am not trying to set a record, my questions are few but really important and I want people to think about whats really going on here (on SW and in the world) so I need good answers, I try hard too...

Worthwhile endeavor. I don't waste time/space in my life but many do...
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
I really do see you trying with the questions you post and with your replies to. Here is one thing I really like about you. When you answer someone. You don't pull punches, and you don't sugar coat it either. You say what you have to say and you move on.
PleasurePunch · 100+
@HumanEarth Thank you for the thumbs up. Horray for you.😊
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Smiles and Blushes
PleasurePunch · 100+
@HumanEarth I am actually having terrible nightmares in real life about not being able to "move" at all, go somewhere and end up stranded...etc. Night after night. Backstory is the same.
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
Well if like maybe talking about them will help. You can talk to me here or in PM your choice.
PleasurePunch · 100+
@HumanEarth Are you a connoisseur of the human condition? You might not be able to handle it.
HumanEarth · 56-60, F
No, but I'll listen