Life is kinda sexist. Im pan so I talk to a lot of different people.

The weirdest thing is:

Girls saying they want to be hugged and r lonely makes u wanna rush over there and help.
Guys saying the same thing: "meh who has the time?"

It's just so instinctual: happens so fast u don't even notice.
Half the time lesbians use the above as a pick up line.
It doesn't work for guys. OK I can't speak for the gay world but in the hetro one it sure doesn't.