Why is life getting so bad

@KuroNeko you might be right but for lat 20 years it goes bad for me

@KuroNeko Well, things don't change unless you decide to change them. Time doesn't change anything if the cause of your misery is still there. And people are mostly miserable because of themselves- their habits and the way they react to external things. So if you're unhappy, do something about it

@Nomad7 hope I will have a luck to do it

@alimcandenizkusu Your thoughts are important. The last thing you should do is imagine that it will always go badly..because if you do that then you will stay closed off to the opportunities to change things. You have a lot more power over your life than you realise. Think about what you want, not what you don't want. What you focus on gets bigger.

@Nomad7 Things happen in life that you can't control, it's how you react and how you put things back together. Change happens, no point blaming. Like I said, thoughts are important.

@KuroNeko Yeah, but that's 1% of it. If you sort the 99% that's in your control, then you don't need to blame yourself. But if you're shooting yourself in the foot, then you're miserable because of yourself

@Nomad7 are we disagreeing lol? You are preaching to the converted

@KuroNeko You're right. It's not what happens to us in life. Things happen in life. It's what we do with what we have left, that counts. Everyday is a chance for a new start. That's up to us. If it's gonna be, it's up to me. It's not easy, but doable. We have to change our mindset.

@LadyGrace Gratitude is a good things to cultivate. It helps focus your mind on what you have and would like more of in your life. Amazing how things unfold for the better when we do that.

@KuroNeko Definitely