Ugh I'mma post the self pitying thing yes ik y'all don't care

I'm lonely. I thought I found someone who needed me as much as I needed them, and I told them "this is whatever, we're both starved for affection" and then they broke it off and I was okay with that.

Except now he has a thing with one of my best friends. And his explanation for it was "we both needed this so badly".

Well I needed it too. I need it. I may seem like I'm doing okay but I'm really not. I need someone. Neither of them ever really considered that.

I just wanna stop hating everything about myself and my life.

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Hairy · 56-60

Well, that really sucks.

And your best friend jumped right on that too. Ugh.

So you've really lost two people in your life, you could've handled the breakup situation but now you've got a betrayal on top of that.

ForeverGrowingOld · 26-30, F

@Hairy she and I are still friends. I understand her and I know that this isn't about me.

He lied to me and that's what makes me mad at him. Which someday I may forgive him too idk.

Hairy · 56-60

@ForeverGrowingOld

You're pretty forgiving. I'm still mad at my cousin for getting with someone I loved and it's been 30 years. I follow "bro code".

Until you find a way to love yourself and be happy on your own, you'll find it hard to stay with anyone for long.

Do something you like doing on your own today for the distraction.