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does one ever get comfortable being lonely? how so?

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Prisoner69 · 26-30, M
If you're lonely because you can't make good friends then you will be sad.

But if you're lonely because you wanna spend a couple months alone then you will be content
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@Prisoner69 but what if you do wanna make friends but you're an introvert and you don't really like the people you do get to meet. And not because you've high standards at all, but because you're just not compatible
Prisoner69 · 26-30, M
@blasphemy666 that's a social skill related problem.

I had that problem but it more or less lies in tolerating them. People are full of bullshit so to keep up
and maintain relationshipd youu gotta tolerate them.


Secondly , tolerating these people will allow you to expand your social circle more and meet people you truly enjoy being with(yes it's possible)
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@Prisoner69 hmm it sounds right in theory. I just broke up with my bestfriend of 7 year. I think I'm afraid of giving people the impression that i care about them when I'm just being friendly and i really don't know how to maintain boundaries. So it's either me having 0 interaction with anyone or me letting them get all into my life too much too soon.