Well, sure. I volunteered my services.

Yeah, but her butt was cute!

Lots of times

As long as they're open about it, it's not a problem

That has happened

Realized - yes
Allowed - never

Every relationship involves two people using each other. Seldom is it the same from each perspective.

Yes, and I cut it

I think everyone has had this experience. If there are no manipulations, then everything is fine. Everyone needs comfort, even in this form.

Not that I can recall but I'm sure it's happened. I've dated a lot of people that weren't all that into me.

No but one user here was getting a degree in psychology and was using all of us through her interactions with us on this site as random user to form her hypothesis of why people do what they do I suppose. But intentionally misleading us all as to her intentions did make me feel used...that wasn't nice. And now she is on here even more than before...doing more research for her thesis? 🤷🏻‍♀



I don't like being mislead.

Non because I wasn't.
Another was. I don't believe the perp always realizes that is what they are doing. What's bad is when the recipient thinks it's a love connection and gets their heart broken. But it wasn't, it's why it ends in a couple years +/- .

Sure but maybe we were just using each other

i wouldn't know... but in retrospect i did that to someone a long time ago without realizing it

Not so much used more like supplemental