I Have Learned Many Lessons In My Life

[b]Everyone is someone's worst monster.[/b] However, just because people tell you that you are nothing, that you are a monster, that you are a user, or whatever harmful thing they think you are. Doesn't mean you actually are a monster to everyone.

For me personally people always call me a user or monster because I hurt people. However the truth is I just didn't know any better way to handle myself in the situations they put me in. Some people though see me as a big bright light filling there dark heart with joy. I had to learn that different people will always see you differently but it's up to YOU to decide who you are. Not them. Just because you hurt someone when you didn't mean to, down't mean you are a bad person. Also, if they didn't give you a second chance to learn from this mistake or give you a chance to explain. Then how are they any better then you? They are not.

Everyone has that one person who is a monster to them in their life. They dread dealing with them or hurt by them or even are scared to talk to them. What makes you good or bad though isn't about what you did, it's the reason why and the aftermath that decided this. If you didn't mean to hurt them, then your not a monster or bad person. If you tried to make it up or explain what happened after then you are a good person, just trying to do good. In the end, just remember it's you who chooses who you are and you who decides if you are good or bad.