Lessons learned.
I picked up my dad's ashes the other day, they are so heavy. I've changed a bit since my father passed away I've learned to be kind to certain people who give me kindness but I've also become very cold and distant with others who I see right through their b.s I've learned to stand up for myself and not take anyone's b.s even from other family members. He's no longer here to protect me so, now I have to be my own protector.