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I have learnt so much in last 3 years

My academic and professional life only saw success since the time i embarked on the journey.

I never went looking for a job but I always had companies poach me to join them and I was in the end the one to make the decision. My life professionally saw promotions and drastic salary hikes and then in 2019 it all ended.

My mom got very ill and hospitalised and to be close to her in the same city I had to leave my last job as a Head of Communications (Vice President) at a major multinational company.

I decided in November 2019 that i will sort my personal life and get back to joining the corporate world in 2020. Who knew in 2019 that Covid would hit us so badly and the job market will be so badly affected.

In these last three years I realised the value of every penny which I so lavishly and extravagantly spent earlier. I would easily spend $1000 every month earlier on absolute nonsense and not keep track of it and today i think twice before spending even $ 1.

I realised who stuck by my side even when I wasn't so well connected or successful anymore. And to my surprise, many successful industry Professionals I befriended still remain in close touch and still go out of their way to help me out.

But I also realised who were those fake friends who associated with me only because of my industry connections and professional success and fame.

I got much closer to my sister who honestly is truly an angel. I have never met anyone so selfless and giving.

I learnt the value of my parents who helped me out from major difficulties and gave me immense emotional support. Except those occassional arguments lol.

I became much more humble than I ever was and i view relationships and people very differently now.

Had I not been through this phase i would have never understood what i am taking for granted.

I thank God for making me go through this tough phase.
OogieBoogieF
This is such a wonderful, albeit slightly sad story .
But learning what u have learnt is INVALUBLE!
Ive seen too many people jist become spendthrifts as the money poured in, never thinking a rainy day (storm) might happen.
And then when it does, they are in such strife , they get bitter and angry.

The friends part is worth more than gold. Actually knowing who are real, and who are fair-weather friends, is a real bonus.

I love your positive view on this 馃
SW-User
@OogieBoogie aww i didn't realise it had a sad bend. I was always a spendthrift until i learnt my lesson the hard way.

This tough phase has only made me a better individual. Thank you for reading 馃槉

Lol someone clicked downvote on my post 馃ぃ
OogieBoogieF
@SW-User hehehe...yeah i know , some dick is going crazy with the downvotes on good posts.
I think its brilliant. Everytime they downvote , they isolate themselves a little bit more 馃ぃ

I truly loved your viewpoint . Considering how tough life has been on you lately , this is REAL INSIGHT .

So often people lament and complain when life turns its tables .

Im considerably impressed with your spirit馃馃挏

Well done you .馃檹馃拫
SW-User
@OogieBoogie Lol i always found the downvote funny .

The way i view problems is by giving myself only wo options.

1) I always have the option to complain, criticize, blame others, cry and worry about it.

2) I work on myself and ensure that i am becoming the best version of myself. I continue to believe in myself, in my potential and retain my confidence. I keep the faith that eventually it will all be fine and learn from the situation.

Option 1 is not gonna give me any solution and it's a sheer waste of time.
ABCDEF7M
This all is part of life, that some people realize at different stages of their life, and some never does. What makes me respect you is that you are still continuing to support that girl in her education. It makes me recall my late grand father.
SW-User
@ABCDEF7 Oh you remember that post :) All we can do is give back to the society in whatever ways possible.
Last 3 years has been life changing.. All the best for your future endeavours.. Keep shining
SW-User
@Hummingbird26 Thank you my Desi friend

 
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