I Am Redhotcrazy Wearing Heart On Sleeve Hear Me
I am hearing lots of things from friends that are giving me words to ponder. Some are kind, some thought provoking, some encouraging, and some reality driven.
The kind words have warmed my heart lately. Two friends last night told me that they missed seeing me, that I was more like family to them than a friend, and they want to be here for me to help me when I need it, and to just talk to me...that I'm not like their other friends, who are good for enjoying time with; I'm more than that. It felt good to feel that appreciated and cherished.
Another friend today sent me the message "thanks for being an amazing, caring friend to me. It means the world"...little does she know, she means the world to me just the same.
And then there are the friends that tell me truth as I know it but sometimes fail to look at. A friend today told me not to worry myself with jealousy or bitterness towards my ex-husband seeing someone new. She reminded me that I will find someone and the wait will make it all the better, but it's better to wait and find someone perfect for you than to just find someone to replace the one you had.
Then there are other people in my life encouraging me and rooting me on towards pursuit of my goals. The one that said "I'm proud of you, I knew you could start working towards your goals, that you just had to leave your doubts behind and start doing it; and you have".
It's all journey- that's why they say happiness is not a destination, but a journey. I'm just glad I have wonderful people in my life to be there along the way.
The kind words have warmed my heart lately. Two friends last night told me that they missed seeing me, that I was more like family to them than a friend, and they want to be here for me to help me when I need it, and to just talk to me...that I'm not like their other friends, who are good for enjoying time with; I'm more than that. It felt good to feel that appreciated and cherished.
Another friend today sent me the message "thanks for being an amazing, caring friend to me. It means the world"...little does she know, she means the world to me just the same.
And then there are the friends that tell me truth as I know it but sometimes fail to look at. A friend today told me not to worry myself with jealousy or bitterness towards my ex-husband seeing someone new. She reminded me that I will find someone and the wait will make it all the better, but it's better to wait and find someone perfect for you than to just find someone to replace the one you had.
Then there are other people in my life encouraging me and rooting me on towards pursuit of my goals. The one that said "I'm proud of you, I knew you could start working towards your goals, that you just had to leave your doubts behind and start doing it; and you have".
It's all journey- that's why they say happiness is not a destination, but a journey. I'm just glad I have wonderful people in my life to be there along the way.
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