I Hate My Mother Sometimes
My Mother Really Makes Me Angry Sometimes... My life is ever so complicated. I'm 44 years old, and when I was only young my parents divorced. Now this is where things get weird - my mother and father still live in the same house - but sit in separate rooms !!
My father had a fall 20 months ago- and broke his hip badly.
My father is 90, my mother is 70.
I'm round their house every single day if my life - every day !!
Now over the last couple of weeks, my father has fallen ill. He wasn't eating, wasn't drinking- and by Thursday of last week- he was so poorly - I phoned an emergency ambulance.
Mother didn't even seem to care
She didn't do anything.
Ok she was offering him food- but when he declined- she just ignored him
They havnt spoken in many years.
It's always me who takes messages from him to her, and back again.
He says - tell mum this
She says tell him That
He says I dont want to do this
She says - well im doing this
And It goes on and on and on. .....
And it's getting on my nerves. A LOT.
As i said- father has been in hospital since thursday - it's a week now.
And he is not doing well- he's hallucinating - he's shouting and screaming and waving his arms about.
Now I've come round mothers this morning - and I told her about dad and his Health at the moment - and her words - her exact words - "oh well- he's done For- he won't be coming home"
..........
It made me so cross- Has she no feelings ?
Who does she think she's talking about ??- that's my father lying in a hospital bed.
She doesn't care about him- I know that - but at Least show A bit if respect for him- a bit of heart - it really makes me angry.
I know they have been separated for a long time
But why does she have to be so fucking heartless??
Grrrrrrrrr
My father had a fall 20 months ago- and broke his hip badly.
My father is 90, my mother is 70.
I'm round their house every single day if my life - every day !!
Now over the last couple of weeks, my father has fallen ill. He wasn't eating, wasn't drinking- and by Thursday of last week- he was so poorly - I phoned an emergency ambulance.
Mother didn't even seem to care
She didn't do anything.
Ok she was offering him food- but when he declined- she just ignored him
They havnt spoken in many years.
It's always me who takes messages from him to her, and back again.
He says - tell mum this
She says tell him That
He says I dont want to do this
She says - well im doing this
And It goes on and on and on. .....
And it's getting on my nerves. A LOT.
As i said- father has been in hospital since thursday - it's a week now.
And he is not doing well- he's hallucinating - he's shouting and screaming and waving his arms about.
Now I've come round mothers this morning - and I told her about dad and his Health at the moment - and her words - her exact words - "oh well- he's done For- he won't be coming home"
..........
It made me so cross- Has she no feelings ?
Who does she think she's talking about ??- that's my father lying in a hospital bed.
She doesn't care about him- I know that - but at Least show A bit if respect for him- a bit of heart - it really makes me angry.
I know they have been separated for a long time
But why does she have to be so fucking heartless??
Grrrrrrrrr
