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I Want To Share What Ive Learned On EP

So I have been on EP for a little while now. And several things have struck me as strange and kind of eye opening. So I am going to attempt to share some insights I've learned from being here. Please don't crucify me. These are just my observations.

1.) Most men on here are probably on here to try and see naughty pics or have a naughty conversation with a willing girl. Notice I said a willing participant. I dont think the majority of guys are trying to be overbearing or pushy. If you girls dont want to participate like that then just say so. No harm no foul.

2.) You girls are super quick to label a guy as a creep and block him for the smallest things. Give him a chance to explain himself or better yet say something and more than likely he will backtrack and straighten up.

3.) Girls, if you have an experience like "Female exhibitionist" or "I Like to Flash my Boobs" dont be surprised when guys want to talk to you about those experiences. If you don't want to talk about it then dont say you like those things.

4.) Of all the messages I have back and forth with my so called "friends" on here, I have initiated every single one. I can't be the only one that is curious about other peoples experiences. Girls, dont be afraid to ask questions too. What I like most of all on EP is chatting with someone about a topic that interests me. Not once has a girl ever initiated a conversation with me.

5.) Guys dont be offended when the majority of girls on EP are only interested in other girls.

6.) Most people are really nice, but there are a few that are downright rude. There is no reason to be rude. Just because EP provides some anonymity doesn't mean you have to use that mask to tear other people down. There is enough hate in this world. Keep your comments to yourself if they are rude. Or at least have some constructive criticism.

7.) If possible, try and respond to everyone's PMs. No one likes to be ignored. I understand that the majority of girls on this site get bombarded with notifications each and every day.

8.) Keep your friend count to a manageable level. This isn't a popularity contest. Are you really being fair to your "friends" on here who are genuinely interested in your experiences when their comments, questions, or PMs get buried so far underneath the incredible volume of notifications that you can't even respond? Just saying.

9.) Everyone deserves a audience with an open mind. If you don't like something, then either dont look, find something else that interests you, or say something in a positive way.

I guess I'll get off my soapbox now. I just felt like I needed to put something out there and share this experience. Take it or leave it. EP can be really fun or really discouraging. I've experienced both. Hopefully for you its more fun than not.



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in response to #5- I am a girl and AM not interested in girls. men are far to interesting and have an appendage that responds appropriately to visual stimulation or words. I love when a man can be sensitive and intimate or when he becomes out of control and beast like in his sexual response. he is a care taker, provider, emotionally and sexually. he is intricately wired and I'll take that any day over a woman!
I'm glad you feel that way. Like I said in #5 though is that the majority of women on EP aren't looking to talk to guys at all. At least that's been my experience so far. You are an interesting person and I appreciate your comments and the chats we've had.