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I Am a Newly Wed Wife

All It Takes Is Some Time... i am an indian , and it is always difficult for an indian girl to get comfortable in her new house with new people , new environment , all I can say is that take your time and give others time to let the things go on smoothly , your life will become wonderful after marriage :)

Note : Some compromises , less expectations will do wonders :P , :D , but most importantly it is all about understanding, the people and specially your husband.
aajayfaridabad031077
ME and MY HUSBAND...

When I Take a long time to finish,
I Am Slow,
When my husband takes a long time,
He Is Thorough

When I don't do it,
I Am Lazy,
When my HUSBAND does not do it,
He Is Busy,

When I do something without being told,
I Am Trying To Be Smart,
When my husband does the same,
He Takes The Initiative,

When I make a mistake,
I Am An Idiot.
When my husband makes a mistake,
He's Only Human.

When I am out of the house,
I Am Wondering Around.
When my husband is out of the house,
He's On Business.

When I am one day sick,
I Am Always Sick.
When my husband is a day sick,
He Must Be Very Ill.

When I want to go out for holiday
I m wasting money
When my husband wants to go on holidays ,
It's Because He's Overworked

When I do good,
My husband Never Remembers,
When I do wrong,
He Never Forgets

When I please my husband I m apple polishing
If my husband pleases me he loves me

Dedicated to all married couples.....
hoodson
i think women is the most and crucial part of the family , who does everything and thinks abt everyone ....
aajayfaridabad031077
thanks hoodson... i copied from net
DarkDesiRe422
this is due to patriarchy..
simplydbest
I hope yours was not an arrange marriage! I really don't like this arrange marriage system!!! Its a silent suffering
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
you are welcome sir.
simplydbest
lol, sir? its a bit of too much of respect for me, hard to digest..
Please don't be so formal
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
I treat everyone equally, you are not an exception.
thoughtbubble
Thats a good amount of maturity for a newly wed. And important one to have. The more people have it, the easier they will march towards their 40th wedding anniversary. You should probably share it with other young newlyweds you know, because such advice is best received from peers rather than from elders as gyaan.
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
well it is good to learn from other's experience as well, that's why we should listen to that gyan by our elders sir, you should give some gyan to younger ones too :)
boypacifik207
its only fair that the husband gives the wife equal understanding too. not just the wife having to do all the 'acceptance n understanding' stunts.....
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
i agree , efforts should be made from both the ends , but this group is all about wives that's why :)
boypacifik207
sorry. my bad...
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
no, its okay , i really respect your point of view :)
johnypepper
why a girl need to adjust /accommodate /understand when she is stepping into new house. To me it is the responsibility of people of the house to accept her and accommodate.
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
yeah you are absolutely right , but as the girl is moving to a new house she has to face more problems, but if in-laws supportive then it becomes really easy
johnypepper
supportive is all gives strength to the girl. can I request you to add me in your friends list
Rahulcute
Yes in an Indian family an husband has to be the key person in a new marriage. he has to adjust both sides in such a way that things go easily and the new girl gains her position in family.
hoodson
hey but wht when ur family member starts everything , even though u ur wife understand and make efforts to keep it right then ....?
aajayfaridabad031077
It's very challangable to any bride....and she always be ready to serve her best, but other members too have some duties.
mannansing03
congratulations... and best of luck for your new life :)
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
thank you but it has been a while.
mannansing03
den Best of luck for the new life when u have a baby :)
DarkDesiRe422
hey what prompt you to be here? just a questions
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
an accident, Sir.
DarkDesiRe422
don't call me sir. how are you
wintersecret
Rightly suggested but shouldn't she also have her on say on it?

:)
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
yeah talking to husband too
kumarca
Compromise has to be from both sides. Life is not a one way train!
dadyscool007
Nice thoughts :)
dadyscool007
would like to be friends with you..do add me
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
we can talk in messages too
dadyscool007
yea but im unble to sent private messages on your page..thts why
crazyuguy
Understanding is really really important.
pinto5784
i think r u right but shyad girls hi aisa kar sakti hi
master4uu
most important is your husband i liked you topic
Rahulcute
wer r u frm mrs khanna
DrAKhanna · 36-40, M
delhi, sir
guy2connect
lovely thoughts
guy2connect
well I'm reading it again, hope you are now settled and understood your family members, also hope they accepted you for who you are... my best wishes AKhanna
Galadabau
Wah! kya baat he!
lovelyguy143333
hi
how are you :)

 
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