Relationships are hard work and a lot of work too . It can only improve if both are mindful of each others needs . Otherwise it won't work .

People change and don’t find comfort in each other’s company anymore. It happens unfortunately

I hate it too, so inconsiderate and lacks compassion
I've got to stop acting that way

It's really sad.

I think most often that feeling relates to how one is feeling about themselves and the choices they make while feeling lonely?

Let things cool down on the relationship side, just be good company, treat him to keep him keen ❤️

I know but I never know when it’s happening to me.

They grow apart.

Maybe those partners need a swift kick in the butt to get their attention!
People quit trying as much once they have a partner... I think people still need to date and all even after being together as couples... probably even more so.