It's only natural

I think it's only natural that I would feel alone given I have literally lived alone for most of my life. I don't really have attachments such as family or friends in the real world and have never met a person who shares similar experiences or even my personal values. Still, I don't blame anyone for this as that would be counterproductive and solve nothing. The circumstances we are born into isn't really a choice we ourselves can make. All we really have control over is how we play the hand we are dealt and I do the best I can with what is available to me. However, I won't deny it really would be nice to find a place where I can feel I truly belong. Perhaps someday. If not I'll certainly manage to keep moving forward with life. Fortunately I don't need people to enjoy life. It would just be really nice that's all.

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QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M

Aww lovely attitude look forward to hopefully being longterm friend 💖💖💖

REMsleep · 41-45, F

Do you make an effort to get to know others?
Many people feel just like you. Sometimes we have quirks in our personality that actually repel us from what we need from others. I know that I do which makes connections harder.
Also you will hardly ever find someone that understands all of you. But I've personally found that I haven't met a person that I couldn't at least relate to in one thing or another.

AliceMargatroid · F

@REMsleep I've met plenty of people and I doubt I'll stop meeting people anytime soon. I also have friends online that have been close to me for many years. Some for nearly a decade. Communicating isn't really all that difficult. The problem is finding people who are actually genuinely interested in me in the real world. I was born with a lot of health issues which just makes things a bit more challenging physically and financially and also makes it impossible for me to have children. My background also isn't one that most can relate to. If I wanted to even with my health being as it is I would have no problems finding people to sleep around with. I just have no interest in that kind of thing and would rather just deal with feeling a bit lonely. Still, thank you for your concern.

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