hold another, small & private, wedding ceremony. And specifically exclude her, use a different church if need be. But make a sweeter memory.

Well, if you don't mind some frank thoughts on the issue, while I understand why you're upset, I'd like to offer that few weddings actually manage to be what we hope of them. Where there's family involved, there are wild cards out of your control. The purpose of this wedding was to be joined to the man you love. That still happened. You can't change his family. What you can do is move forward and prove her wrong. Make your marriage as good as you can. The wedding's done and honestly such a small small part of a marriage. Focus on what you have and leave her to the ugly noises she feels compelled to make. She only casts a shadow if you let her. Best of luck now! 👍🙂

Go on a long vacation..

Was the damage permanent? Don't get any bad ideas inside and do it on the behalf of dear old grandma- in case you made it through and actually married and focus instead on your life with him and don't neglect building its cornerstones but don't strain things or else it might get sour and permeate through your future kids. also, don't care for as a maid but as a real person with your own dimensions and all, show him the unforeseen joy in things.

You should have stood up for yourself then and you should still now. And so should your husband.

You b sure to remind em they're going to go into an decrepit nursing home when the time comes 😬

In-laws can if you let them ruin your marriage. Beware

That's okay.. make jokes and take bets at her funeral ;)

Hugs