Sometimes it's hard to put things into words, and if he is helping your cousin and "being with" your cousin, that might be all she gets for the time being. NOt everyone is a poet. It's hard to say mushy stuff for some people.

Action speaks louder sometimes than words do

Some people can only express love by doing for others. Some aren't huggers,cuddlers,buy things for them but is there working alongside that special person

Anyone who comes up with a specific reason is site BSing or smoking something really good!