How long does it take for you to get back to normal after losing a loved one

Hmm I think it will take me this entire life

@FallenOptimist22: It probably will. Especially if your have lost a spouse or child.

@SweetMae: well she was neither but we loved each other more than anything else

@FallenOptimist22: I am very sorry for your loss.

@SweetMae: thank you