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OK, so my boyfriend’s father is in the hospital again 😢😢

And my boyfriend is wishing he could go up there and see him, but his dad lives all the way in Nebraska. So Christmas break again we have to go back up there. We were gonna have Christmas with my family this year because last year we had it with his family, but his dad really wants to see his grandkids.

I’m trying to be the supportive girlfriend that he needs right now. I’m doing everything that I can but I fear that eventually he’s gonna want us to move up there so that he can see his dad more and take care of him because his mom is also getting old and plus their other kids don’t come around so they are wanting him to take care of them in the future. But he has dreams too like he wants to finish school and he said that he’s done with Healthcare. He’s burnt out of Healthcare and he doesn’t wanna go back to having to do that stuff. He just wants to finish school and start his construction business. and plus on top of that I really don’t want to move up there 😢
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Adstar · 56-60, M
Might be an idea to ask about the Idea of them moving to a place near you guys.. That way he will get to see his grand kids and your boyfriend can keep a closer eye on them for health..

Cannot hurt to put the idea forward..
TurtlePink · F
@Adstar his dad doesn’t want to move down here 😥
Daisy57 · 56-60, F
So sorry 🙏🙏
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
Just a warning for that time of year. We are in a super-El Nino year and this winter could make for some heavy snowfall up there or even blizzards once the Arctic fronts start blasting down to the U.S.
TurtlePink · F
@cherokeepatti that’s what I’m afraid of 😢 I don’t want to go up there, but I love him and I’m gonna do it anyways.
cherokeepatti · 70-79, F
@TurtlePink When I was 5 years old my parents took me to Nebraska about a week before Christmas for my mother to visit her family. It was warm when we got there. By the time we were leaving they were giving blizzard warnings and we ended up stranded and stayed in a motel one night till they got the roads cleared so we could get back to Missouri. Weather forecasting is a lot better than it was in 1961 but still there’s a chance of a snowstorm that comes blasting through.

 
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