I’ve given him 13 kisses throughout the day

That’s actually not a lot to how many kisses I give him daily. And he’s only giving me 5 kisses from the time he got up to the time we step foot in the therapy room. So I brought this up in our therapy session today and our therapist said “ok then your goal for this week is to give this girl more kisses” and he was like “that’s easy.” in my head I’m like actually no it’s not because you’re never the first one to kiss me and when you do it it’s only like five kisses throughout the day unless we’re having secs which is completely different. I don’t count those because you’re supposed to kiss during secs or at least we do 😬 so yeah, I’m not trying to change him like I get it. He’s not affectionate like how I want him to be. He’s not like all over me like how I am with him. I understand that’s just not his personality. I get it so I’m not trying to change him. It’s just that for me I need to know that you still love me and I feel like the way to show that you love me is to text first and to kiss me first