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I know me and my mom don’t have the best relationship

But I am so grateful and thankful that she’s helping us pay for this. And I kind of feel bad because my brother and his ex-girlfriend were going through a lot of the stuff that me and my boyfriend are going through and they couldn’t afford couples therapy and they wanted my mom to pay and she said no because she didn’t like his girlfriend. So now he’s kinda mad but also I’m glad that my mom likes my boyfriend. And that she sees that he’s good for me. And last year whenever we broke up, she was trying to get us back together, but he was being weird and sending me mixed signals.

He really is a good man. It’s just that we have a lot of misunderstandings. I will be honest. I’m not really the best to live with, but I’m working on things. He’s so worth the investment. He’s such a great man and maybe I don’t tell him that enough. Maybe I don’t tell him that I appreciate him like I should. That could very much be our problem. He does so much and I just come off like I’m ungrateful. I mean, I may not tell him, but I feel like I show him. I show love in many different ways, but when it comes to appreciating somebody, I guess I don’t tell them, but I know for a fact I do show it to him.
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CreyvinMoorhead · 41-45, M
It was your mother who loved you before you were born - who carried you for a long months close to her heart and in the fullest of time took God's hand in hers and passed through the valley of shadows to give you life. It was she who cared for you during the helpless years of infancy and scarcely less dependent years of childhood. As you have grown less dependent, she has done the countless, thoughtful, trouble-healing, helpful and encouraging things which somehow only mothers seem to know how to do. You may have accepted these attentions more of less as matters of course and perhaps without conscious gratitude or any expressions of your appreciation. You are rapidly approaching the time in life when you will be entirely independent of your mother. The ties which dependency has bound you to her may be served as you grow older, but the tie of mother-love can never be broken.
@CreyvinMoorhead shawty I’m adopted