I would rather him spend time with me than for him to be so disciplined and hard-working.

I mean, it’s a great trait. But regardless we will be ok! Im lonely and as his “wife” I would want him to make time for me, not just provide for me, ya know 😔😔 I’m not his responsibility. He doesn’t have to do all this for us. What’s more important is spending time together. Because who am I in a relationship with if I never get to see you? The future can wait. I mean yes it’s important we teach our kids about hard work and dedicating it towards a successful future but they also need to know that we find time to be together. We have not got on a date in weeks. I want our kids to know that it’s not about your parents going to school and working and raising kids. I want them to know that you get to go on dates and have fun with your partner. Because when they start to date, I would want them to know that spending quality time with their partner is just as important as providing for them. There needs to be a balance but in our relationship there isn’t 😔 it gets pretty lonely sometimes