Everyone’s always telling me that marriage is hard after a while and blah blah blah

But they don’t understand what me and him have been through. we’ve already gone through the hardest part. Our relationship has been very messy these last four years and I feel like that’s what makes our relationship so powerful because we’ve already seen each other at our worst. I feel like people who rush into marriage when they finally see a side from their partner they’ve never seen before they they don’t know what to do. But I’ve seen him at all angles and he seen me at all angles so like there’s no surprises and I’m not afraid to tell him to stfu and stop acting like you’re my dad and oh my gosh you’re so annoying dude, I’m not afraid to tell him these things because sometimes he does bug me. like dude go take a hike. But that’s just shows that like where we are at in our relationship where I can be mad at him he doesn’t take it personal. Also, he’s put me in my place too. Sometimes I make stupid choices and he wants to lecture me, but I know he only does it because he wants me to be self-sufficient so in a way he’s protecting me. That’s what you do when you love someone that’s what you do when you’re in a relationship. And the biggest indicator that shows that he loves me is the fact that he doesn’t want me to be a stay at home mom because he says what if something was to happen to him and I don’t have a way to provide for myself financially. And that’s why he’s been telling me to not quit my job because he wants me to have stuff under my belt just in case. So even though I hate the idea of having to work because I want to stay at home and be a princess he’s actually helping me long-term. That tells me he loves me and he wants to be with me 🥺🥺