Ive been missing our kids
Ok first I should say, he said he doesn’t want anymore kids until we’re both done with our degrees. And I agree with him and I’m not mad about it because he’s right, ever since we went back to school, our schedule and our time with the kids has been off.
And I feel so sorry for my mom having to take on and pick up the kids from school more since we’re both working and going to school and I’ve been spending more time in the library until late then I sleep in while my mom watches our younger 2.
And that’s why I agree that we should wait to have more kids. And I know it’s really hard on them not getting to see us as much so that’s why I always recommend get your education first before you have a bunch of kids. Nothing wrong with having your kids young but eventually when you have to go back to school these are the problems you will run into.
But I am so grateful and thankful to have my mom help out a lot. She said she doesn’t mind because she loves getting to spend time with the kids. I mean ever since my dad died, she’s been kind of depressed and lonely. So I am so glad she doesn’t mind raising them part-time for us. But it’s gonna be worth it in the end.
In a year in a half he WILL have his masters and hopefully next year I have my bachelors (I know, so embarrassing. Taken me 9 years to finish a 4 year program) but yall should not judge me because I’ve worked hard. You just have to keep at it, take 2 classes at a time and you’ll get there!
And I feel so sorry for my mom having to take on and pick up the kids from school more since we’re both working and going to school and I’ve been spending more time in the library until late then I sleep in while my mom watches our younger 2.
And that’s why I agree that we should wait to have more kids. And I know it’s really hard on them not getting to see us as much so that’s why I always recommend get your education first before you have a bunch of kids. Nothing wrong with having your kids young but eventually when you have to go back to school these are the problems you will run into.
But I am so grateful and thankful to have my mom help out a lot. She said she doesn’t mind because she loves getting to spend time with the kids. I mean ever since my dad died, she’s been kind of depressed and lonely. So I am so glad she doesn’t mind raising them part-time for us. But it’s gonna be worth it in the end.
In a year in a half he WILL have his masters and hopefully next year I have my bachelors (I know, so embarrassing. Taken me 9 years to finish a 4 year program) but yall should not judge me because I’ve worked hard. You just have to keep at it, take 2 classes at a time and you’ll get there!
