Why is our relationship such a soap opera
I mean, I know I’m dramatic but he’s way more dramatic than I am
Next year he wants to spend Christmas with his family in Omaha. And he wants to take our youngest son (who is biologically his) since it’s only fair that our son gets to see his other grandparents. I told him that I didn’t want to go back up there to Omaha anyways because I did not feel welcomed by his family (only his parents were nice to me) when he took me up there this summer. but his female relatives do not like me over some stupid Facebook fight I got into it with them from a couple years ago and I could just feel the animosity. They just don’t move on
He can’t understand why I don’t feel safe going up there but I was willing to compromise and I said that he could take our son since I didn’t want to be that controlling baby mama 🙄 I literally have no issue with him taking him. Because again it’s important that our son gets to see his other grandparents and I really like them because they treated me so good. Our unborn child (who is also biologically his) should be like six months old by next Christmas and idc, they’re spending their first Christmas with my family.
But he just wants us all to go up there but I’m like my other two kids have no business up there anyways since they’re not related to any of your bloodline so why should I have to make the trip up there? And none of your relatives even like me so again why should I have to go up there for you? Just take your kid and have a good time. But no it’s just another thing we have to argue about. And again I understand where he’s coming from I haven’t dismissed anything that he says. I find it sweet how he considers my other two kids to be his kids it’s just, what about my feelings? I was willing to compromise for him but he isnt willing to compromise for me 😔😔
Next year he wants to spend Christmas with his family in Omaha. And he wants to take our youngest son (who is biologically his) since it’s only fair that our son gets to see his other grandparents. I told him that I didn’t want to go back up there to Omaha anyways because I did not feel welcomed by his family (only his parents were nice to me) when he took me up there this summer. but his female relatives do not like me over some stupid Facebook fight I got into it with them from a couple years ago and I could just feel the animosity. They just don’t move on
He can’t understand why I don’t feel safe going up there but I was willing to compromise and I said that he could take our son since I didn’t want to be that controlling baby mama 🙄 I literally have no issue with him taking him. Because again it’s important that our son gets to see his other grandparents and I really like them because they treated me so good. Our unborn child (who is also biologically his) should be like six months old by next Christmas and idc, they’re spending their first Christmas with my family.
But he just wants us all to go up there but I’m like my other two kids have no business up there anyways since they’re not related to any of your bloodline so why should I have to make the trip up there? And none of your relatives even like me so again why should I have to go up there for you? Just take your kid and have a good time. But no it’s just another thing we have to argue about. And again I understand where he’s coming from I haven’t dismissed anything that he says. I find it sweet how he considers my other two kids to be his kids it’s just, what about my feelings? I was willing to compromise for him but he isnt willing to compromise for me 😔😔
22-25, F
