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Being friends with your secretary (significant age gap)?

Normal or Is that a fetish too?
Sapio · 51-55, M
I don't think it's a good idea. And I do not say that because of temptation. I say that because you work with her. The personal relationship can affect he professional one. That would be my concern.
@Sapio You assumed, her. But since the auth never corrected I won't say anymore. Id probably say more upon the topic about the power imbalance, but some seem to thrive upon that.
Tumbleweed · F
Well, I suppose it could go either way. I think it's normal. Now if ALL your friends are secretaries, that may be more of a fetish, but it's still ok :)
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
I'm friends with my administrative assistant, but that's as far as it goes. Lot of mutual respect (I presume) both ways.
What's wrong with workplace friendships? You do one job, they do another.
Northwest · M
Administrative Assistant and No.
Quimliqer · 70-79, M
Only if one allows it to be!!
Adogslife · 61-69, M
It depends how friendly…
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
A bit of both !
But nice
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
Seems normal to me
Barebum61 · 61-69, M
It is what it is
scorpio611 · 41-45, M
Ontheroad · M
Could be both... kind of depends on the dynamic, and what the boss has in mind.
Justferfuun33 · 41-45, M
Friendship between adults is fine.
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
@Justferfuun33 wht if there's and undertone to it with sensual attraction?
Justferfuun33 · 41-45, M
@longhairedcougar Power dynamic is a key factor and needs to be addressed openly, honestly, and in writing and if you are an ethical person, you will never be able to admonish or fire the person without risking a lawsuit. It's dangerous territory but not unheard of and not off limits. Just remember that the work and personal elements of the relationship will almost certainly be impossible to untangle. But proceed with caution.
ABCDEF7 · M
If you both can keep the friendship and work separate.
justanothername · 51-55, M
How old is your secretary?
eyeno · M
Nope, work place professionalism.
wudifu · 46-50, M
Yes it was a good few years
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
usually normal. in your case, a fetish.
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
@pancakeslam lol what do you mean? Say more
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
@longhairedcougar well it depends. are they just being friendly? or are they more than friends? or is this your personal fantasy?
wildbill83 · 36-40, M
Musicman · 61-69, M
What is wrong with being friends??? Or are you referring to something more.
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
@Musicman you sensed it right

 
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