Being friends with your secretary (significant age gap)?
Normal or Is that a fetish too?
51-55, F
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Tumbleweed · F
thewindupbirdchronicles · 46-50, M
@Sapio You assumed, her. But since the auth never corrected I won't say anymore. Id probably say more upon the topic about the power imbalance, but some seem to thrive upon that.
LostnFound69 · 51-55, M
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
@LostnFound69 far more often than not but made evident always
luckranger71 · 51-55, M
Justafantasy · M
Strictmichael75 · 61-69, M
Muthafukajones · 46-50, M
scorpio611 · 41-45, M
SparkleLeaf · 51-55
Ontheroad · M
Could be both... kind of depends on the dynamic, and what the boss has in mind.
Justferfuun33 · 41-45, M
Friendship between adults is fine.
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
@Justferfuun33 wht if there's and undertone to it with sensual attraction?
Justferfuun33 · 41-45, M
@longhairedcougar Power dynamic is a key factor and needs to be addressed openly, honestly, and in writing and if you are an ethical person, you will never be able to admonish or fire the person without risking a lawsuit. It's dangerous territory but not unheard of and not off limits. Just remember that the work and personal elements of the relationship will almost certainly be impossible to untangle. But proceed with caution.
ABCDEF7 · M
If you both can keep the friendship and work separate.
justanothername · 51-55, M
How old is your secretary?
eyeno · M
Nope, work place professionalism.
wudifu · 46-50, M
Yes it was a good few years
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
longhairedcougar · 51-55, F
@pancakeslam lol what do you mean? Say more
pancakeslam · 41-45, M
@longhairedcougar well it depends. are they just being friendly? or are they more than friends? or is this your personal fantasy?
Lilred2289 · 31-35, F
It’s ok
wildbill83 · 41-45, M
