I hate nasty girls like Sexyy Red

I’m tired of seeing her and hearing about her all down my social media. I feel like she gives other Black girls a bad name. This is why nobody takes us serious and they just think we are all like her and show our butts and do hoe sh!t. She’s 25 and I’m 23. I stopped doing hoe sh!t 2 years ago and I got my shit together and grew up. This is just nasty. This is what people think when they think about Black women our age. Ghetto, ratchet, loud, nasty, STDs, etc. it’s embarrassing. Sometimes I feel like I have to apologize to my family because they’re all white and don’t understand when they hear about all these new female “rappers”

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MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

Growing up in a christian community with all the black girls being extremely proper has helped with my world view I think, race doesn't matter to me that much, and a few bad apples doesn't change that.

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@MartinTheFirst Then maybe it’s just an American thing and this is how foreigners view Americans our age 😅😅

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart Well america is known for the disproportionate crime rates between black people and other races, but obviously that's a cultural phenomenon. I can see that without much consideration for the depth of the issue people can view black americans as scoundrels in general due to this fact.

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@MartinTheFirst I don’t feel that way around them I mean I can walk through the hood at night and not get killed. There’s a lot of crime but Black people mainly just target other blacks. like they don’t go out and kill other races for the heck of it. And plus a vast amount of Black crime is done in the hood and so if you’re afraid of them just don’t go to the hood but when it comes to other races you can be at the mall and there can be a mass shooting you could be walking on the street in a city and get kidnapped or robbed. So it’s like you know where the crime is at when it comes to black people you know where to stay away that they only do the crimes in the hood so don’t go to the hood 🤷🏿‍♀️but when it comes to other people you can be anywhere and be attacked. Nobody likes to look at it that way.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart Yeah, I believe that the hood mentality is a huge factor in this crime-culture. How do you pull people out of that mindset?

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@MartinTheFirst It all starts at home.

TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart · 22-25, F

@MartinTheFirst Same with school shootings it all starts at home. Also people need to teach their kids to not bully other kids.

MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M

@TurtleEclipseOfTheHeart The sad thing is that there's no way to improve the home-situation for other people.