Why when you show interest in women they act like you don't exist, then when you lose interest they start calling you and text you all the time?

She’s playing hard to get .. she’s seeing what your intentions are .. we see you .. but if you bombard us with alot of attention .. then your are going too fast .. you need to let us make the decision ..lol .. give us just enough attention where you are like .. maybe I’ll see you later .. and leave it up to us .. and I will be like .. grrr I wanna this guy to fuck the shit outta me .. but if you keep giving me attention .. I won’t have room to think .. lol ..