Is 20 km a long distance in your opinion? Also do you think I can get her?

Today I finally came to know where Aishu lives now in our city. She was my childhood friend when we were in elementary school in 2008-2011 but we never talked in person with each other since 2011 as me and my parents came to another area as we bought a new apartment. We had been chatting on Instagram for a few months but her replies have been super slow. Like she goes for weeks or even a month without replying or even seeing my messages. She is 21 now and will be 22 after like 3-4 months and I am 22 now. I made her go aww too by sending her a virtual hug today. She also told where she lives now in our city but its literally 20 km away from my home. Do you think the distance is a lot? I also saw the new pic she posted and she is too pretty and I wanna meet her honestly.

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Baazer · 26-30, M

Well if it feels any better, me and my gf started out about 100km away from each other, almost 90minutes by car. I then had to move cross country for a new job, which made the distance about 400km.
Now we live together and have a kid.
But there's alooooooooooot of variables to take into account.
In the beginning, I was still living at home + had more income, so it made more sense for me to go to her than the other way around.

But I think you have more to work out before considering if the distance is an issue or not.
I think @hartfire covered that pretty well.