Ok so you guys know how me and my boyfriend finally bought a house little over a month ago

I have no idea what our mortgage is 💀 or any other bills 😬 is the man supposed to keep that information from his partner? I mean I could just simply ask what it is but then I would feel guilty about not paying anything. My only major bill is my car because he thinks it was a stupid financial purchase and he’s right but who cares. 😂😂