Yeah, the more the breakup fog dissipates the more I realize that being single is simply just the best mode of life for me
I'm beginning to fully realize just how much I missed this. The quiet, the freedom, everything is on my time table and only my time table.
I want this for life. I dont think i will ever pursue a long term comitted relationship again.
The only downside is having to hunt for sex rather than being able to roll over and get some whenever but honestly I like the hunt. There is something meditative about the whole process and the more you do it the better you get at it.
I wonder just how refined I can become in that regard and I am determined to find out.
That is something a man can't do if he is tied down.
One skill I have yet to master is holding the progression of the interactions at the point where she has sex with you but you aren't actually committed to each other yet. That is always the part where I end up having to find a new partner because I don't like to flat out lie and I can't think of a way to say "I don't want to commit to you but how about lets keep having sex?" that is eloquent and vague enough to keep the humping going. I usually just say something like "Im not ready for that" and then they say somthing like "oh so committement is too big a leap but frequent sex isn't?" And then they start putting out less and then I lose interest.
It is a cycle i have yet to find a way to prevent or even stall.
I've tried being totally upfront about that off rip but it just doesn't work; I cannot find a good cut buddy. Attractive and clean females who strictly want sex are just in too high of demand; they get snatched off the market as soon as they get into it.
It's like trying to buy a PS5 but on top of the high demand and low supply the PS5 has to choose you and not the other way around.
I want this for life. I dont think i will ever pursue a long term comitted relationship again.
The only downside is having to hunt for sex rather than being able to roll over and get some whenever but honestly I like the hunt. There is something meditative about the whole process and the more you do it the better you get at it.
I wonder just how refined I can become in that regard and I am determined to find out.
That is something a man can't do if he is tied down.
One skill I have yet to master is holding the progression of the interactions at the point where she has sex with you but you aren't actually committed to each other yet. That is always the part where I end up having to find a new partner because I don't like to flat out lie and I can't think of a way to say "I don't want to commit to you but how about lets keep having sex?" that is eloquent and vague enough to keep the humping going. I usually just say something like "Im not ready for that" and then they say somthing like "oh so committement is too big a leap but frequent sex isn't?" And then they start putting out less and then I lose interest.
It is a cycle i have yet to find a way to prevent or even stall.
I've tried being totally upfront about that off rip but it just doesn't work; I cannot find a good cut buddy. Attractive and clean females who strictly want sex are just in too high of demand; they get snatched off the market as soon as they get into it.
It's like trying to buy a PS5 but on top of the high demand and low supply the PS5 has to choose you and not the other way around.
