He said he wants to put a baby in me. I used to think stuff like that was a turn on but now I just see it as red flags
We’ve been dating off and on for the past 2 months. It’s no secret that I do really want his baby too and I’ve even talked about having another baby on here but when a guy talks about it so soon, it just turns me off more than ever. I haven’t even discussed these things with him either. I mean, it’s ok if he does want a baby but you don’t approach me like that in that manner 🤦🏿♀️ In my mind I’m thinking he’s just gonna leave and use it as bragging rights to his friends that he got me pregnant and then he’s gonna play those childish games those dudes play with their baby mamas. I don’t want any of that drama, I’m not one of those hood rats or whatever. I’m not any of those bitches and hoes dudes rap about either.
Im not getting hurt this time because those dudes don’t know how to love. They just know how to fuk 🤷🏿♀️ and they fuk real good. But I gotta have willpower and I gotta stick to my guns. I promised myself I wasn’t gonna have another baby until I’m with a committed dude for longer than a year, I was out of the situation I’m in and I have a stable income! I can’t support another child when gas is as high it is.
Im not getting hurt this time because those dudes don’t know how to love. They just know how to fuk 🤷🏿♀️ and they fuk real good. But I gotta have willpower and I gotta stick to my guns. I promised myself I wasn’t gonna have another baby until I’m with a committed dude for longer than a year, I was out of the situation I’m in and I have a stable income! I can’t support another child when gas is as high it is.