Why are men sexually interested in having weird things?

@BRUUH It doesn’t work so well for gay people, not so sure it will work for fetishists either.

@SW-User then what is the solution? To be themselves? Just read these comments; everyone on here, even well known users who we all love and think are nice, are saying extremely demeaning things that would make any fetishist feel alienated she have low self esteem. So many big users in this thread are saying things that, if said about gays would be extremely offensive. The reason they care about protecting the feelings of people who feel same sex attraction yet didn't choose to, but degtade people who like feet or all the other weird stuff yet didn't choose to, is because society told them not to be homophobic yet hadn't yet told them not to hurt the feelings of people who like weirder things. If these people wete born 200 years ago, they would be lining up to hurt gays.

Am i wrong?

@SW-User like, someone on here just answered "because men=disgustink". Imagine if she gave that answer for the question "why do some men like having sex with each other"?

What i an saying is to actually put outselves in other people's shoe and ask "would this make me feel bad and would i deserve it?"

@BRUUH I mean, sure, but I don't accept that being gay is like liking feet. Homosexuality is not a paraphilia. Homosexuality is not just something you jack off to, it can be sexual or romantic just like heterosexuality. A paraphilia doesn't have that division.

@SW-User honestly, that differentiation really has nothing to do with my argument. Gaus also don't choose who they can love, so what? My point is about feeling urges (sexual or romantic) that you didn't ask to feel and that the world mashes you feel like a freak for. Saying that one sexual nature comes with romance is an arbitrary line that to me. Didn't defeat the point that we should put ourselves in other people's shoe abs not have all these double standards.

I mean.. if you say its different bc gays can love, what shit people who are only into gay sex but ate heyero romantix? Is it now cool to make them feel disdusting? Will you or will you not condemn bullying by users on the comment section?

@BRUUH You literally called them "degenerate" so I'm not sure how that's different? You think calling it "degenerate" isn't bullying?

People talk around my points because they just want three people THEY gross out but to demean them, while justifying a lack of concern (or direct animosity) towards people who gross THEM out. We have to be compassionate

@SW-User like you have no idea what people on the other side of a computer screen could be going through. Someone might self hate and contemplate suicide, them come to this site anonymously to validate that they sent freaks, then judgement is reinforced by these comments.

@SW-User dude... even if i am "undermining" my own point, it would just make me a hypocrite. So what? Why don't YOU undermine my point since you disagree? If you want me to calll myself a hypocrite and say you got me so you can feel good then I'll do that, idrc. I just want you to actually adress the points and admit that your friends are bullying just as bad as you said i was.

@BRUUH Um, okay, so why do you care? Then I'm a hypocrite too. I defend certain people and condemn others who do the same thing. We're both hypocrites. End of discussion.

@SW-User why do i care about being inclusive and not making people feel like shit about things beyond their control? And why do i want you to stand with me? Gee, i don't know. Maybe because i have a heart and don't want people to kill themselves.

Why is it so hard for people to be compassionate to those who pop culture hasn't yet told them to?