Would you rather go through the pain and learn from your experiences or be attentive and learn from other people's mistakes?

My thoughts exactly. I am confident in the sense that I try not to let my mistakes repeat itself. I fall, I break then I get up and say NEVER AGAIN

@Lifeafterlove: There's an old saying; '[b]Sails the boat that bears the roaring sea![/b]...'...☺