Did you ever get hurt by an ex or someone your in a relationship with now

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SW-User

One of my good friends stop seeing eye to eye and we stopped being friends .. she started messaging my boyfriend at the time . And I knew it.. I asked him to stop talking to her and he told me I was tripping .. then I asked to see his messages and he got defensive .. I let it go then she started coming to his work just to talk to him and I was like I’m done .. he ended up knocking her up and moving on himself .. she tries to be cool with me now and I’m like bitch please !!

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@SW-User I had a similar event . I was helping out this person and me and my x got asked to go to a barbecue and they started talking and a couple of weeks later I seen the 2 of them in college grounds and I asked my x were you meeting him and she said No so she switched it around telling me that I need to go to a pysche ward and she be there for me when I get out . I never went when I was with her. Then a few months later and I caught the 2 of them out again and that was the last time we talked . I called her sick cause i was so stressed but she did meet him , she got people to back her up and go a lot of people convinced i was the sick one which i wasnt .
Do you know what she taught me with that ? LIFE and since then i never once felt a bit insecure in myself . Just went through the pain

greenmountaingal · 70-79, F

@riseofthemachine Wow, cheating and gaslighting, what a nasty combination. Glad you recovered.

SW-User

@riseofthemachine sorry you went through that .. going through the pain sucks lol but it gets better if you let time heal ..

riseofthemachine · 41-45, M

@greenmountaingal I swear it was some combination mentally. I'll top it off . The person she met tried to destroy me cause I caught them out and said all sick things about me and do you know what I said to myself afterwards. THERE WELL MET 😂😂😂