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goldenorchid · 46-50, F
Whao!
This is a yes or no question,
Would you say he got mildly angry when you implied you don't trust him?
This is a yes or no question,
Would you say he got mildly angry when you implied you don't trust him?
Angelwithbrokenwingxo · 26-30, F
Yes but we had this conversation from day one but each time he keeps insisting upon me coming over so he can grill and we can be by the pool. He’s more upset at the fact that we have to wear masks and he keeps making excuses about places being closed@goldenorchid
goldenorchid · 46-50, F
@Angelwithbrokenwingxo to be honest he doesn't sound like a good person, just be very careful and make sure someone knows where you are.
Your regret should always be that you were too careful.
Your regret should always be that you were too careful.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
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Adstar · 56-60, M
You have to make that decision for yourself.. In the end you have to do your best to ensure your own safety.. He should respect your wishes.. But at the same time it is understandable that a decent man would feel greatly offended knowing a woman thinks of him as being some kind of rapist..
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Adstar · 56-60, M
@Caliginous I can see the others perspective.. But it is not my perspective.. I came to give my perspective.. She did ask for comment on the issue.. To assume your perspective needs to be enforced upon me is narcissistic.. I am not here to enforce my perspective on Angelwithbrokenwingsxo.. I actually started out with saying that she was responsible for her own safety.. Which was saying it is her decision in the end..
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SW-User
It certainly sends up flags for me. When I was dating I suggested cooking for them in the past, some of them have said they would prefer to go out for food first and I totally get that so I feel you are right to be concerned and understand why you are reluctant to meet him again.
If he is a tidy guy he should have no issue with you being uncomfortable at this stage to go to his for food.
If he is a tidy guy he should have no issue with you being uncomfortable at this stage to go to his for food.
DeWayfarer · 61-69, M
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Caliginous · 51-55, F
theexciting1 · M
No, I think that he is too self centered in not trying to please you. I wouldn't even consider going out with him again. Let him pout and wonder just what went wrong. End of story.
MarineBob · 56-60, M
He could still and you could go to a park
Hoosierxdaddy62 · 61-69, M
Just like dad always said... trust your instincts
Montanaman · M
Go with your gut instinct, he's got an agenda. 🙅
MartinTheFirst · 26-30, M
Is this me and @SW-User ?