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SnailTeeth · 36-40
Now why would I do that? I focus more on the moment, because the more I focus on the prize, the further it seems, and the moment becomes unenjoyable, until I finally, impatiently decide to give up on the prize. I think it's better to approach it one step at a time, and if it comes within grasp, so be it. If it doesn't, no harm, no foul, it is what it is, and I don't feel too crest-fallen. At the same time, it's probably better not to focus on anything, as it just leads to a pattern of hunting for the next thing in order to chase a series of feelings of false fulfillment. I think it's better to prize what you have, and take every eventuality as a bonus. It's less stressful that way.