I’m moving so slow today but I have so much

I need to do.

How do I turn down my mother in laws help when she offers?

I like taking care of my own errands

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SweetMae · 70-79, F

I know it can be hard to accept help, but if she is being gracious you could get more done.

KaysHealingPath · 36-40, F

@SweetMae but there is nothing she can help me with.
I’m attacked and shredding a bill pile.

She doesn’t know what’s been paid what needs to be tossed and what needs to be filed away

I already let her do what ever she wants as far as cleaning. It’s not something I like other people doing for me, especially because we have different ways of doing it, I just let her do it however she wants because well how am I going to tell someone who is my elder how to do things?