If a girl doesn’t message you first then what?

That's kinda how nature has set things up. Guys propose, women dispose. Yes, we live in an enlightened time now where men and women should be equal and blablabla but let's get real, when it comes to relationships, no woman wants to think she did the damn chasing.

Most girls are like that.. just use for practice and keep finding more. Don't waste time relying on one.

By practice you will become good in provoking a conversation..

I stop texting

Wait for her to initiate. If she doesn’t you have your answer.

Short dry answers to your question or prompts to conversation are the true tell here. Don’t worry about initiating contact unless she tells you to stop

You're too needy. Stop chasing her, let her come to you.

She’s being polite.