Sometimes we mistake our grief. Sometimes we mourn over someone we thought was right for us....

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Sometimes we mourn over someone we thought was right for us. Our dream. But sometimes, if you'll just step back and look at it, you'll discover you aren't mourning for that person at all. Think this through. You're mourning for what might have...

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Leeand29 · 61-69, F

I truly believe everyone that passes through our lives and everything that happens is for a reason.
Thank you I needed to read something like this today. 💞

LadyGrace ·

@Leeand29 You know, I was going to include that in my post, but forgot, so thank you for this important reminder. That is absolutely true. We learn something from every person we encounter. Bravo! 🙌

Lee124 · F Best Comment

There's love and the idea of being in love. Sometimes feelings can be so profound that it's easy to fall in love with the idea. This is a mistake many make and the reason for many broken hearts and bitterness in this world we live in.

LadyGrace ·

@Lee124 Oh, absolutely! Brilliant! I learned that long ago. There were times when I was only in love with the idea of being in love. After all, being in love is a great feeling! Yet, we must know the difference and tell ourselves the truth. And then, some are not in love at all. They believe sex is love. Our heart can play tricks on us. It's only lust. I asked this one young lady if she was in love, or in lust? It opened her eyes real quick. In my opinion, where there's no honesty, respect, or faithfulness, there's no relationship.

Lee124 · F

@LadyGrace I absolutely agree.

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Don't get this confused. Always tell yourself the truth. This person was emotionally unavailable for you. Who would want to stay connected to one who never reciprocates?

Profound

LadyGrace ·

@SW-User Thank you! We weren't made to stay miserable! There's someone and also some "thing" out there, meant just for us.

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