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SatanBurger · 36-40, F
@AN1991 Most men treat women who they view as that with disrespect or they'll manipulate.
I don't think it's right but that's what happens.
I'm also not saying that the woman was "easy" to begin with but if you're more free loving but not necessarily easy, men tend to look down upon that also.
Even if you are not easy but they'll think you are or misrepresent your character.
It's the same with being submissive.. you want to be careful because there's a lot of predators who don't care but they'll act like they do until they get what they want.
I don't think it's right but that's what happens.
I'm also not saying that the woman was "easy" to begin with but if you're more free loving but not necessarily easy, men tend to look down upon that also.
Even if you are not easy but they'll think you are or misrepresent your character.
It's the same with being submissive.. you want to be careful because there's a lot of predators who don't care but they'll act like they do until they get what they want.
Miram · 31-35, F
@AN1991
This is a public post.
You asked why are women afraid of being easy?
And as a women that judgement kind of includes me.
Easy women rarely find stability, you cannot figure out the worthy if you're giving yourself to everyone without any conditions nor standards.
You will waste your youth and resources, and if you do have an offspring , as woman you are also wasting their chance to have a better alternative and a healthy family structure.
Most men don't settle down with easy women
This is a public post.
You asked why are women afraid of being easy?
And as a women that judgement kind of includes me.
Easy women rarely find stability, you cannot figure out the worthy if you're giving yourself to everyone without any conditions nor standards.
You will waste your youth and resources, and if you do have an offspring , as woman you are also wasting their chance to have a better alternative and a healthy family structure.
Most men don't settle down with easy women
AN1991 · 31-35, M
It's a public post but it doesn't warrant you to comment on my marriage. That's personal.
To both of you, my point is just that you can't fake being hard. Either you're easy or you're not. And you've to live that way.
There's no magic formula of earning genuine respect from genuine men by faking hardness.
To both of you, my point is just that you can't fake being hard. Either you're easy or you're not. And you've to live that way.
There's no magic formula of earning genuine respect from genuine men by faking hardness.
Miram · 31-35, F
@AN1991 I didn't comment on your marriage. I asked if you were married, and I can ask whatever question I see being related to yours. 🤷♀️ Nothing wrong with that.
That's entirely a different topic than your question.
Being easy is a choice, not a fixed nature of some sort.
You seem t have decided that not being easy is faking? What does that even mean? That women who aren't easy want to earn respect from men? If that is the case, you haven't read my response correctly.
It is not about earning ALL men's respect. It's about doing what's best for you and your preferences i.e finding stability.
You can't practically do that if you give all of you to many without any limitations.
my point is just that you can't fake being hard. Either you're easy or you're not. And you've to live that way.
That's entirely a different topic than your question.
Being easy is a choice, not a fixed nature of some sort.
There's no magic formula of earning genuine respect from genuine men by faking hardness.
You seem t have decided that not being easy is faking? What does that even mean? That women who aren't easy want to earn respect from men? If that is the case, you haven't read my response correctly.
It is not about earning ALL men's respect. It's about doing what's best for you and your preferences i.e finding stability.
You can't practically do that if you give all of you to many without any limitations.