why do i seem to attract spoilt or entiltled people?

like really why dose people hate the fact i need to use sign language and avoid talking as it causes problems. and get even more annoyed when i tried using my ipad to talk to people. i cant win. the worse part is i didnt have my hearing aids in so couldnt hear them at all. i could tell they were yelling but no idea what about. but i know they were calling me rude.